hello dear, i never thought i would be in such a dilemma, finding myself between the devil and the deep blue sea.
here is my plight and i would appreciate any honest advice.
I'm married to a loving husband and have 3 wonderful sons. life has being OK for us until recently when we developed some financial problems. my husband and i know and believe that soon, everything will turn out right and would not have to worry about living.
I'm a lawyer but have not worked a day in my life and suddenly i got this great job as a legal counsel in an oil company in Lagos.
this should be a very happy moment in my life but I'm sad and torn.
you see, i live in Abuja with my family and taking this job offer means moving to Lagos. my husband is happy about the job but has got concerns with the office being in Lagos. I'm to resume early next month and its causing me sleepless nights even though i know I'll be shuttling Abuja every weekend.
i love my family more than my life and it makes me cry thinking that my kids will feel i choose my job over them, all i want is to sacrifice my happiness to provide a better life and future for them. what do i do?