What is it like to be a genuine person?

In recent years, more and more people are striving to self-development and self-improvement. More and more people are trying to live a more meaningful life, setting goals and trying to achieve something. This, of course, can’t but indulge the soul. There is more than one answer how to be a genuine person. And no we will try to understand the essence of the question.

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Firstly, it is important to realize that it is we ourselves are forming our lives. To do this, you need to learn to take responsibility for everything.

Surrounding people only represent us as a mirror. Even if we do not realize. Whether we like it or not, nice it or not. If someone, for example, is rude, it means that I’m allowing someone to do this. Of course, this understanding does not come immediately. And admit this even to yourself ... well, is not very desirable.

Secondly, recognize your right to make errors. We all make mistakes, no one is perfect. It’s important to recognize it and correct it in time. Not always our opinions or our actions are right in the eyes of other people. And it is a fact. It is necessary to allow for the possibility of this. For example, it is my opinion, I have a right to it. But I assume that the other person does not agree with me, and he also has this right. I also recognize that the other person can be wrong.

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Thirdly, understand - no one owes nothing to. I can love someone, someone to help as much. And that's just my choice. I do it because I like it. It is foolish to demand from others the same. It's my choice. Sometimes, though, we must be able to say NO, but it can be very difficult.

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It is equally important to learn how to live here and now. There is no past because each moment comes now. And there is no future because it still is not. It is being formed now. It can be hard to realize it. In addition, attachment to the past raises too many problems, anxieties for the future, etc. It prevents to see the opportunities right now.

Too many people "stuck" in the past, constantly talking about how good it was before and how bad it is now. They do not understand that changes - it is the law of life. There is nothing constant in our lives and everything is changing. While they criticize the life, it passes. Motion and development are natural processes in the universe.

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Get rid of the habit to criticize someone. A man who does not do anything in life, not even trying, with great relish criticizes others. Even if he is not versed in the subject matter. Do you think that such a person is a genuine person? We do not think so.

Do not copy someone else! Instead, develop your own individuality. Let others imitate you. In addition, to be a role model is much better than to imitate someone.

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Find a passion! It's worth knowing that if you care about the organization, friends or family, then you will become indifferent to them. So, find yourself in some kind of passion. After all, there will be something in your life that you will really like or what you want to achieve passionately.

There is no ideal person. So, we constantly have to work on ourselves, control our thoughts, words and deeds. Not for someone, but for ourselves, for our lives. Yes, it is difficult, but also necessary.

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