would you forgive your girl/guy if he or she confesses to you on how you were cheated on?
To be honest when I was younger, I used to say I"ll never forgive such things, but sincerly life is no White or bLACK, it depends on many things but one thing is sure: I'll refuse to be humiliated many times, it means if it's a mistake (because no one is perfect) I can forgive you even though you will have to regain my trust, but if this is a man who can't control himself, then I'll go
I have forgiven the only girl/woman who has cheated on me even without her asking for forgiveness.
I have forgiven her, because I LOVE MY PEACE OF MIND.
MY PEACE OF MIND IS ACTUALLY WHY I AM STILL SINGLE, BECAUSE I DON'T WANT ANY PALAVER OR WAHALA IN MY LIFE.
MOST WOMEN COME WITH THEIR PAST PALAVER AND WAHALA AND I HAVE A LOT ON MY TABLE TO BE TROUBLED BY PERSONAL AND SELFISH PASSIONS AND POSSESSIONS.
My life work requires peace of mind without selfish distractions.
Just forgive and fill your mind with pure, true love and peace of mind.
UN-FORGIVENESS IS WITCHCRAFT.
"Over my dead body"!!! that'd av been my answer few months ago, but now; my girl cheated, told me, promised it was over but still went on to break-up our relationship cos of the guy. She wants to come back now and even though i'm stalling and forming i know within meself that i'lll still take ha back. Its crazy the things we do for love!!!
I can forgive but i can,t forget.If this happens to me ,i go fashi the girl sharp sharp.But i won,t hate her forever-i mean as a guy you might be down for a while but within a short time,u 4get it and continue life(woman plenty for town).The fact that you broke up with her doesn,t mean you didn,t forgive her,it just means you can no longer trust her.If i meet her anywhere in the future i would still say hello.
As for the guys who bring down heaven and earth on the guy who their girl cheats with,i feel that is a totally uneccessary act.You suppose they thank God say u even catch the girl(what if you didin,t catch her and you end up marrying her)?Besides,"Guys will always be dogs"the fact that a girl has a man doesn,t stop me from going for her(Na that one sweet pass self).It is up to the girl to keep her head straight because if you have a girl that is soooo sexy guys like you and me will always try to get a taste of that apple pie.
Funny enough, used to have a boyfriend i love so much that i decided if ever he was going to cheat on me, i would definitely forgive him. That was because i loved him but unfortunately, we didnt break up on cheating ground, it just happened recently and its still tearing me apart. It was a thing we both could not help. Dont think am going to love that same way anymore though.
So its possible to not only forgive but forget too if u are in love.
well that is how i am and will continue to be . It hasnt hurt me so far. Besides i am still friends with a guy that cheated on me so thats that. I dont have to remain in the relationship, nobody HAS to do anything. My opinion, my way, works for me. Others may forgive and carry on, i dont and i certainly dont stay bitter either. My attitude towards relationships is very easy going. Plenty fish in the sea like you say innit
Would you rather prefare keeping the truth from you?, allowing it to keep hurting his feelings until you both get married & he opens up at a later time?. If you say you have really forgiven him then you have to give him a second chance, that will show you have forgiven him from your heart. for him being able to open up without you finding out that means he will not continue, it simply shows how much he loves you (i.e. not being able to live with the guilt of cheating on his love)
For cheating on me? YES, To get back together or continue the relatioship ?NO . I just take it the relationship is over and move on , not a problem there is no rule that says you must be long suffering please. Dont have time or energy for relationship games. If he cheats, it shows he doesnt want to be with me. If i cheated i wont expect forgiveness. It mustn't have meant that much to all involved if you got to cheat.
I tink a similar topic already exists bt @topic, forgiving someone is more about u than the person ure 4givin,so no matter how much it hurts i sure will 4give for ma peace sake. Bt takin him back might be a waste coz i dnt tink i'd trust him anymore. It depends on d circumstances that led 2d cheatin sha