What is it about being nice to a girl?
Sometimes I get freaked out with the way some women think.
When you are very nice and caring, they say you are weak and not man enough. Then when you go authoritative, firm and become and [become an] "I don't give a damn" kind of guy, they say you are taking advantage of their love, and you are too rude and scary, then threaten to leave you.
Are we supposed to understand a lady and act according to how it pleases and suits her to make the relationship last longer? Or we should just be ourselves in the relationship, for her to understand, or vice versa?