My fiancé is 7 months pregnant. We are already engaged and will be officially married soon. In the early days of the relationship when we weren’t yet very serious, I had a fling with a girl in my neighborhood – we had sex twice but parted ways when I told her about my girlfriend- she later met someone else and they started dating. About a month or two later we met and she told me she was pregnant but wasn’t sure who owned it, but was determined to keep it. Her new guy however had accepted responsibility and they were going to get married. Some1 (I don’t know who) told my fiancé when she visited the next time that I had brought that girl home. I flatly denied it. She later called and told the girl off.
Things have been normal ever since (my fiancé mentions it sometimes though but I still deny it). Yesterday however she called to tell me the baby was mine: she said the baby looks nothing like the other guy (although the guy is taking care of the baby)- she says her conscience tells her am the father anytime she sees the baby. She claimed she wasn’t asking me to accept the baby but just to know that I had a baby. I’m deeply troubled-I have a feeling this might resurface sometime.
How do I handle this situation?
1.I might tell my fiancé- I believe she loves me enough to forgive me but she definitely would be devastated- and am scared of the effect it might have on her pregnancy
2.I might just let it be hoping it never resurfaces again
3.I might tell her sometime later…after our baby is born.
Please advice- I’m really confused.