please help me out
I'm in the same situation - she's a really sweet person that I love as a person but I'm just not in love with her. And I just don't see myself marrying her. Btw, I'm 24.
It would hurt her too much if I broke up with her (she's 25), for really no good reason. Things seem to be great on the surface and she's really quite a catch, just not the one for me.
Anyways, I've let myself catch a little fun on the side, and I don't feel guilty about it
It's better you let go, what are you still wating for? Well ! maybe you can learn how to love ,try to do your statistic and find out the reason why love is missing and i guess your partner might be crazy about you , try to avoid comparing any of your admirer with him/ her , If he/she is the best for you, force yourself to love by creating a kind of intimacy between yourself and imagine he/she is the best among million .If you practice this and it doesn't work , better break up and carry on with life , don't cheat, ok !
the word "cheat" is not the best word to use here, since you claim you don't have any feelings or ever liked the girl in questioned. i would advice be more matured about the whole thing and let the girls mind be at rest, cause if you let her go deep with you and you eventually break her heart, you own heart will surely be broken.
Use words like, babe! listen what am about to say may sound silly to you but i believe it the best." i don't think this thing would work." but don't use words like, "i no like u again." like some of our pple here. be straight and matured about it. so that she or he will not feel the hurt to much. "do unto others as others would do unto you"