here everyone decides for himself. Those days are long gone when it was necessary to retain their virginity until marriage, but in some countries that still try to adhere to, because it is considered a sin. Then why only the woman should be a virgin, and the man allowed? And they can even have several? It already is discrimination against women. So I think if a girl already had sexual relations with someone before marriage, it is quite normal and there is no shame. everyone to decide to have sex before marriage or not.