pls is it wrong for a guy to marry a girl of same age?i want u pple to help me out please.
I am older but look really young. I once married someone 9 years younger, nothing but problems. After divorce, I date a lot of women and the young ones are headaches, lack maturity, but look nice. I like the ones my age or close to my age. Problem is that a lot of women my age lost their looks.
when i first heard that age was just a number it did not make much sense to me until i fell in love with a babe that is eactly my age mate as in the same year and month and in fact my birthday is only 9days before her own, but i have come to realise that no matter by how many years u are older than she is she will one day grow old and so will u, in conclusion age is just a number
Yes it is. If u guys r 20 now. In 20 yr time, u'll both be 40. Sh'e be in her meaopause den n sex will be shitty.
Besides wat time do u have to acheive sth b/4 u can marry her when u guys r both classmates. No offence, but with the situation in Nigeria, you want her to wait till she's 32 (dats wn u'll probably be ready). Then she has barely 5 yrs to fill d house with children. Wat next? Marathon childbirth?? C'mon, give the lady a break!! look for your mates, pple 5yrs younger than you.
Dont mind me oh, my BF's just a yr older dan me.
But really, its your decision to make, not ours. If you think its worth the risk, then go boy!!!
Age has no specific place in a true and committed relationship, infact I came to conclude that there is no success that's attributed to age i.e becuase I was so so age that was why I was able to suceed not at all, it just about maturity and maturity is of the mind, so i dont succumb to that. I have seen husbands who are more older but the home is not settled, and vice versa, I think what matters is the state of mind and total submission to the will of God as regards marriage and surely not age.
It depends on nationality or your county of origin, for naija men such as myself it is customary known and still is that a guy should and must marry someone younger especially if he wants children since older women have risk during child birth and age complication for bearing children.
As for the westerns, it is not a big deal to marry someone of the same age or older or younger. However, most parents would prefer for their children to marry someone who is younger but then that depends on the maturity of their kids.
Personally, I will not marry someone older because as I say before there are advantages for my custom to demand someone younger. That is just my honest and sincere opinion oooo.