I have been wondering if love is actually a feeling and what people mean when they say they are in love is actually love. When a guy meets a girl and they both say they are so inluv, they always want to be around each other, holding each other and doing stuff together, they guy takes the girl out often, buys gifts, always want to talk on the phone with the girl. But soon as they are married, after a few years, that feeling or those actions gradually disapear, those that are married will confirm that they dont feel like doing those things anymur. Does it mean they are not inluv anymur ? when the guy goes out to meet another girl(FRESH GIRL) those feelings somehow comes back. So if the guy decides to continue doing those things he did for his wife when they were dating, he is doing it because he decides to and not because he feels like.
Please let me know your answers to the question, Is love a Feeling or Decision?