I have been pondering the age old question of fidelity; don't get me wrong i believe in LOVE, relationships and marraige. But in all sincerity does sleeping with another while in a relationship really mean you don't love? How can the act of sex define or nullify what really exists between two people or better yet what exists that an act of sex destroys? Before you go off with replies think of this scenario:
A married man is in love with his wife (or vice versa) and has sex with another woman but his wife does not know, he still shows her the affection and treats her right and everything is perfect. Sometime later she finds out and feels betrayed and all of a sudden everything is wrong. Now understand that up until she found out even though he was with another person she felt okay but now the thought of this causes problems. In retrospect the period between the revelation was great up until the knowledge of the act, so my arguement is even while he was 'cheating' she felt love right? So whatis the big deal? Is it more of an emotional reaction or did it actually affect the relationship.
Looking forward to your thoughts.
PS: This is a discussion, lets be mature and articulate our feelings, who knows we may find something out!