i need contributions to this post
ok, i met my bf in naija when i travelled last year, judging from the time i spent with him(july -august), he seemed to b a nice guy n really cool. he asked that we b frnds n dat he loves me. After i left Nigeria, the first couple of weeks we really talked on d phone a lot, u kno feeling happy with ourselves. the problem now is that he doesnt call me anymore, expects me to b d one to send mails everytime n all he does is to read n say some mails r borng cos i dnt discuss spicy things. he did not call me on christmas eve but i was awake till it was 12:00 nigerian time to usher him into chrismas day with a phone call. No phone call on new year n no mails at all, yet everytime i call he says how much he misses me, asking when ill come to naija again. As of this moment i called him cos its been a month I called him last( i made the last three phone calls n he none, im a student n dis guy freaking works!) n all he was saying was u kno how naija is , work work work n poo. so u guys tell me pls
Is it really that work work work in naija, do ppl on the average find it hard to call their gfs abroad n is the call rate really expensive. this is my frst r/ship n i dnt kno if not calling ur girl for more than 2 months sometimes ( at least for distance r/ships) is the norm.
im not even expecting him to call on vals day but he ought to kno better, at least phone communication is the main instrument for ppl nt together in one place. question is
Is this guy serious?
What do u think may b going on with him?
Am i expecting too much from him?