The question am about to ask you ladies is important to me and I believe other guys here will find it usefull as well. So you ladies should patiently read and try come up with a sincere answer.
Am aware that you ladies get offended when a guy declares his love or fondness of you within a short time of meeting you the first time. I do understand that you ladies attach more importance to a guy's personality more than the guys do to you. So I believe you ladies will need sometime to access a guys personality before you finally decide if a guy is worthy to have you or not. In other words, you ladies want a guy to go through a PERIOD of an introduction/familiarity phase before anything love and romance comes up. Now, the problem here has to do with the lenght of the period. So my question comes up as follows:
According to how frequent you see and discuss with a guy, if you see and talk with a guy on daily bases, how long maximum will it take you to fully access his personality and decide if he appeals to you or not?
If you see him on weekly bases, how long maximum will it take you to make your final decision?
If you see him on monthly bases, how long maximum will it take?
Am aware you will need split seconds to decide for a very ugly guy and of course few minutes to decide for a very handsome nice guy. But most guys are neutral and can take you weeks and months before you can fully check them out, so your focus should be on the neutral guys.
I need to know about the timing so that when the time comes, I can boldy ask a lady out without the fear of hearing things like, I HAVN'T KNOWN YOU WELL or ISN'T IT TOO EARLY FOR THIS? Over to you ladies.