I have a relationship of about 9 years and during the nine years relationship i invested a lot in this girl up to her jobless mother.
I paid her fess in some cases while i cloth this girl all the time, some of the furniture in her mother rented house are my sweath.
To my suprise last two weeks she refused picking my calls and i ask her why, all she could text to me was that there was a revelation that we were not meant for each other begging me to forgive her because she has offended me a lot.
I later realised that it was her mom that took her to a c&s church and it was revealed that i have tendency of marrying two wives therefore we were not meant for each other.
Each time she call me on phone she always crying and begging me to forgive her and her mum because thay have found her another guy for him where she is serving now and the guy promised to settled down immediately.
I understand that it may be because the guys plans to settle down immediately while i am still studying and hunting for better job to do made her and her mother to take this decision.
Pls house i av invested all my savings, life and future in this girl, she keep crying begging me for forgiveness every day and keep telling me that i can not understand while that decision was taking, and the most intresting part of this issue is that up till tomorrow the mother keep denying that she did not know anything about it.
The guy he is dating called me after i sent him a text to find out some facts during our conversation i realized that the guy did not know anything about me earlier and i tried to persuade the guy just to marry her and not let her suffer or regret her decision just to show how much i love this girl but the guy replied that Man proposed God disposed that he has no decided for now but to she inquestion thinks that they are getting settled as soon as possible.
This development made me feel bad, after grooming a girl for almost 9 years and she never caught me for once that am doubledating or something and she choose to pay me back with this honestly it's pathetic.
Each day we speak she always cry and ask for forgiveness,telling me that i can not understand while thing happens like that all this made me believe that may be she is under a spell or influence or something, the mother still denied the story till tomorow but she told me that it was the mother that took her to where they prayed and see the vision.
Pls house don't mind my lenghty story this what av being running through and it has affected me a lot pls i need your urgent advice