I saw the movie Notorious about a year ago and the reason as to why Notorious BIG chose to marry Faith Evans over Lil Kim still eludes me. He seemed to be having fun with Lil Kim, even encouraging her career and personal growth, and then he sets eyes on Faith, and that was it!
Bringing the issue close to home, a male colleague told me he was looking for a wife as he wanted to break up with his girlfriend, lets call her Bella. Bella is beautiful and vivacious, and they seemed at least on the surface to be perfect for each other.
My question is, what qualities can men spot from miles apart that makes them see one woman as potential wife and the other merely as girlfriend? and even if they cant spot it from miles apart, what is it that a man sees, that makes him decide that he wants a woman to be by his side for the rest of his life??