I'm a frequent reader of this forum, jus signed up and decided 2 contribute and gain from this forum.
Iv bn datin dis girl for 23months nw, We all started in 2006, like play, it became serious, we was in love and all that, she was insecure, possessive and sensitive, but at first i never really cared, i nevr cheated or treated her bad, i was a kind of person who jus plays along wit love, cos 4 som reason i dun blive thers tru love, ok, to cut long story short, Im Nigerian, shes som othr race, I left the country wer i met her and transferred to the US, and we still datin, like long distance stuff, u knw, i havent seen her in about 12months, we all hav our ups and down, and that relationship wahala, but recently, i started being insecure and kinda too sensitive, while she bcame less n less jealous and kinda matured u knw, but the issue is well, we always hav issues u knw, fights and all dat, if she dun bring poo up, i wud bring poo up, u knw, none of us like havin fights or wahala, but it jus happuns, plus me nw gettin all kinda insecure and all dat, and recently bn thnkin and is still decidin 2 end the realationship(she is suppose 2 com join me in d states dis month) I want 2 break up wit her, because i feel its d rite thing 2 do, atleast, we wont b givin each othr stress whic we dun like, i see it dis way, if we meant 2 b togethr, we wont b havin so much stress, we cant stay for 48hrs witout havin a fight or argument, so i told her i want 2 break up wit her, aftr i got pissed of cos of lack of trust, she really loves me, and i love her too, but i do thnk d best thin 4 us 2 do is call it quits, cos we keep hurtin each othr with stress and worries, plus at this point in my life, i got so much poo 2 worry bou, skool, work and my family issues 2, u knw, its all so clumsy nw,
My aim if writin this is to seek 4 som advice, Im i doin the rite thing by breakin up wit her? I havnt found any person, neithr im i lookin for, i dun wan 2 break up, but i really feel its for both of our good. I told her 2 thnk bou it, she say she dun want 2 break up wit me, shud i go ahead and break up wit her, and hope time heals my heart or keep d relationship goin? Im really tired of the relationship cos of d problems, but i do love her and she does love me, any advice?