Pls, i need adv from wise people in here,
My story goes like this, i reside in Texas, have a Nigerian guy i'm dating, he lives in Nigeria, we met a year back but we haven't seen, but i truly love him. I have never for once cheated on him despite the distance. At first, he was so good to me, so caring, but things changed suddenly, he became so harsh and always complain that i nag too much. I am this generous type, have given him lots of gifts when we were in good terms,
I noticed he is not real, cus he barely call me, i always do the calling, i have complained times without no, still he doesn't return my calls, but he always tell me he loves me. There was a time i added his friends on facebook, he told me point blank that i was getting too close for his comfort, we argued about it but later we settled and he said i hurt him that was why he told me that then.
Now, i'm thinking of sending him some stuffs, he didn't request for it though, and i'm not doing it to buy love either, (pple shouldn't get me wrong). I just think my true love deserves good things, and everytime i see nice stuffs, i feel like getting for my siblings as well as him.
My question is, should i continue to be nice to him, despite that he is not so much commited and for the fact that we have not met before? If yes, don't you think he would take my generous act for granted?
Pls, no harsh words,