hello NLanders, pls i nid ur sincere advice on this issue. i am a 25yr old working lady and i have a boyfrend that i v been dating for the past 6yrs. it has been more of a secret relationship as far as the both families r concern. once my mum suspected us and strongly opposed it and even my frends dont like him, there reason i dont know. now he is yet to go for his NYSC program and then come out and luk for job b4 dreaming of settling down but he kips assuring me that 3yrs from now we will get married, but wat if something happns and he leaves me and by then i will be 28yrs. again, my mum and everybody in my house is expecting me to get married this year so i can help train the rest of my siblings in schl since my job is not yielding much and my father is no more. shuld i bone my family's demand n frends and wait for the man i love though i dont know if my mum will ever approve of our marriage or luk for another person and save my siblings and my age as well. pls advice me!!!!