Who is a "playboy"? And how should it be in a woman's dreams? For some women, he embodies the character of the women's novel, for others, he is the screen hero, and for the most fortunate women, it is the manager of a nearby office.
The word "womanizer" means a man who lives a full sexual life and seeks to seduce and then have sex with the maximum number of females in the shortest possible time. Psychology of playboy is very simple. He will do all – a possible and an unbelievable, to have sex, and sometimes enough words to get a sacrifice.
If you met a boy who is a charming, very attentive to you, a witty lover who like flirting, then either you have attacked a gold mine, or you fell for the bait to an old playboy. If you met a boy who is a charming, very attentive to you, a witty lover who like flirting, then either you've met a gold mine, or you fell for the bait to an old playboy.
Playboy clearly knows how to make a woman feel like a special lady. He will fascinate her, amuse, look after her, he astounds his wit and flirt recklessly. He is strikingly different from all other men, who you met up to now.
Of course, it’s not easy to distinguish a man of your dream from womanizer or professional lady-killer, but some signs will help you. Of course, we are not saying that every man who has this set of talents is a playboy, but better be warned, being in search of true love.
He fixated on their appearance
Most of all, ladies' man has a big ego and an inflated sense of self-worth. As a result, they are likely to "dummies", who concentrate on their appearance, and, of course, he wears expensive watches or suit. Of course, not everyone men, who proud of appearance, have some ulterior motives. But if you notice his penchant for boasting and condescending related to the staff in a cafe or restaurant, you should be careful.
He asks many questions
It's nice when someone is interested in your life and your opinion, but it is worth a little prick up your ears. Lady killer uses the information against you. He is armed with knowledge about you, your desires, life values, will try to show on the next date, he shared them and fully corresponds to your ideal. In general, he wins your confidence and makes you think that he wants the same you love (despite the fact that, perhaps, he doesn't intend to start any relationship).
When you are together, he doesn't keep concentration
If he experienced womanizer, perhaps he perceives you as prey. If you've already slept with him, and he doesn't answer your calls, messages, and does not call back to you now, it is possible that he has already received the required. Alas, it is impossible to predict in advance, but if you suspect that he is "player," you should try to stall for time, and for a few weeks to avoid sexual contacts, to see if he will lose interest in you.
He often checks the messages on the phone
If he is well-known surgeon or president of the country, you should endure. In other cases, there are no objective reasons to shut down or to put off his phone on a date with you. When his phone rings constantly, and he stubbornly texts message to someone, you should consider whether he is honest with you. Perhaps he already agrees on a date with someone else ... or even, he talks with his wife!
He showers you with compliments
If a man says memorized phrases, lavishing compliments to your address - it's great chance that he making it is not the first time, and he's already convinced of the effectiveness of all these phrases. If he managed to tell a bunch of sweet words about your eyes, figure, personality, and smiles for the first 15 minutes of acquaintance, beware. This overconfidence can be a sign of lady killer.
He appoints a "convenient" place to meet
He may invite you to a later date so that you harder to get home, but his apartment will close completely by accident. He can take you to some pretentious bar at the hotel in the hope that you will be there with him for the night. Do not let him control you. If he does not like a place that you have chosen, perhaps, he was up to something.
He wastes too much money
It’s great when he offers to pay for dinner, but playboys often demonstrate their wealth and in other public situations, to make an impression. If you think he is too persistent, you need to ask him to move to a more secluded and quiet place to see how he will behave when he doesn't have such a large number of spectators.
He loves hints and ambiguity
An experienced womanizer will insert a phrase with a hint in your conversation, to make you think about sex. Perhaps, you weren't thinking about sex with him, when you were going to the date, but he will make great conversation and eventually you'll be all the time to think about it.
He talks about your shared future
The man who promises a happy and pleasant life together for a girl who is single and opens to the love - is not such a bad thing. Playboy knows that this is a dream most of the women, and the stake on it. Womanizer can hold forth on the subject of your future, leisure for both or he will promise you the moon. Just you do not forget to remove the noodles from the ears and maintain sobriety of mind to don’t feel stupid when all will open.
He uses affectionate nickname
He is calling you cute, baby, and darling. At the beginning of dating, it is done to make you feel special. This is nice if you have been together for several months, but in the first weeks of communication, it may be a sign that he is trying to accelerate the development of events, and he wants to have sex as soon as possible. Also, it could be a ploy, when he doesn't call you by name, especially if it has a few women and at the same time he is afraid to make a reservation.
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