I started dating my girlfriend in March and its really been nice. We've been friends for a year but we officially got off to dating March this year.
I'm a very free guy and I dont like taking life too seriously. and my girl knows me for that.
Everyday when we talk, she tells me about all the guys that hit on her at work, where she eats, @ the salon. Everywhere she goes at least 2 guys must try to ask her out. Her toll is like 6 to 8 guys everyday. we always laugh at the guys together especially those with very poor pick up lines cos she told me there was nothing to worry about.
Earlier this week, she told me about a particular guy she met like 3 years ago. She's known him before we met. although they've not met in person. She told me the guy just got back from singapore where he went to do his masters. He then asked to meet her. She asked me if she should meet him. And i said OK.
She met the guy @ her office restaurant today. She then called me after the meeting and was talking about the guy. She was so excited talkin about this guy. It wasnt like when she was talking about the others. she sounded pretty excited.
When i noticed her excitement, I kept quiet. She noticed my silence and she asked why and i didnt talk.
She then asked, 'dont tell me you are jealous'. . And i was like ' why shouldnt i be'? She got all angry and all. i got angry too. I asked her if she's going to see him again . she said she does not know. I got quite angry,
She has not spoken to me since then. That was this afternoon. Its really bugging me because we talk almost all the time. 2 hours without us talking is too much. Its almost 8 hours now.
Was i wrong to be jealous? Am i over reacting?