Well i wanted to start up this topic earlier today but the "new topic" icon ran somewhere and by the time i came back to send it, i saw a similar post but it wont make sence to write my story as it has gone way beyond 5 pages. That's to show this topic na serious issue.
I will classify myself to be a social person who has friends withing every thinkable age,status,tribe,and social background. this kind of make me have lots of female friends who confide in me in all facet of their lives.
The issue now is that i have this particular lady (i could term her my best friend within the female folk) when she had a breakup with her boy friend i was the only person she could cry out her whole heart and kept asking me what she did wrong and all that, i am always the first person she talks to about career decisions, her toasters,family issues and of recent helping out with a business plan and implementation.
All along, i have always tried erasing any thought crossing my heart of starting up a relationship with her but the truth is this lady has given me every possible green light you can imagine on earth but yet i havent asked her out. she has used series of questions (i.e asking what exactly i want in my dream WIFE, if i can go out with a girl from her tribe,her age, her physche, and any other thing you can think of.). Her family know practically everything she wants them to know about me. the very first time she begged me to visit her place after i had turned down such invitation in the past I WAS TREATED LIKE A KING AT HER PLACE.
She doesnt really like listening to my talk about girls i like and al that. and tries to make it look we are dating amongst people.
Well i dont wanna give the whole story about this lady so i dont start boring you guys but the question now is.
In as much as i like this girl very well as a friend i am scared of dating her çus i will hate myself if we get into a relationship and it doesnt work Bottom we expected it to. deffinately i know we wont be so close anymore. and on the other hand if i continue to resist this lady will think i am a SLACKER and probably "UNCLE WINNIE" down there isnt working properly as per she don give me body language tire.
Well i will appreciate only SERIOUS COMMENTS and ADVICE, but i am planning to ask her out this week (hopefully if we get to see on monday). i will deffinately keep you guys inform.
ABEG MAKE UNA WISH ME WELL, i am confused. and really want a wife and not a girl friend anymore (that she knows of).