What is domestic violence? Is it good? Why do the men hurt to their wifes?
“IF YOUR HUSBAND BEATS YOU, WAIT TILL HE’S ASLEEP, TIE HIM UP & BEAT HIM TOO” – NOLLYWOOD ACTRESS VICTORIA INYAMA’s POINT OF WIEW.
Ex-Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama is going to comment her attitude to domestic violence against women. It is believed that a woman or man should not leave their partners in any case, but if it is adultery, so you must think carefully about your partner.
She wrote a piece of advice on her social media handle for those, who has the same situation of the domestic violence, and doesn’t know what to do in this case.
- «So today on the train I get to talk with a nice lady. She’s been through so much in her bad marriage. Somehow the police gets involved and she’s removed from that unsafe environment especially as children are involved. The issue now is one of the many Pastors whom she used to run to for help and prayers now tell her that if she decides to end the abusive marry, The Bible says she is not allowed to remarry. Ok, so if that’s what the bible says then she suggests that what she would have done was after he beats her, she would have waited for him to sleep then she should have tied him up and beaten him up too or done worse to him. So I ask did the Bible truly say one should stay in an abusive marriage riddled with lies, cheating and adultery??? Did the Bible or the people that wrote The Bible not get a revelation on that? Is it fair??? If that’s the case then I would probably agree on an eye for an eye. Since It’s not biblically? Religiously or Christianly to leave? Then when the man hits, wait and endure till he kills you then he will be forgiven or wait till he’s probably asleep then strike. Have a blessed Day Dearie».
So, as you see the Nollywood actress Victoria Inyama’s is against the domestic violence.
In my opinion the true man mustn’t hurt his wife or bride. If he does it, you must think hard if he is a good person to going out with.