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I don't know why men don't like over weigh women. WHAT IS THE MATTER WITH THESE MEN. We women are very fun and we can really be a good girlfriend and we can even cook good. We are not different from these skinny. girls. I think it does not matter how that person looks you should love that person no matter what. I think if you love someone you would not care how that person really looks. Men in Nigeria love skinny girls I do not know why it is like us fat girls are not good people. Men need to appreciate us women because we end up being the best and we tend to be faithful to them. These skinny women tend to be unfaithful to these men. I get really angry.
Add new things to your day to day routine like taking a walk,meeting at least one new person everyday,listen to music that u like,take naps,exercise,learn something new like another language or how to play a musical instrument,have quite times to discover yourself and communicate with Ur maker,set goals and targets for yourself,Laugh more and daydream.by the time you are done with all these,loneliness will be HISTORY!!!!!!
i think many people do not understand the meaning of loneliness, it is different from being alone. you can be alone and enjoy ur company but loneliness is a state of being sad. nothing can be done about it, we need ppl around us to kill this lonelisome periods not neccessarily the opposit sex. it also different from the urge for sex. sometimes when you are lonely and u go ahead to have sex, afterwards you go back to being lonely.
when u are lonely, hug ur pillow, watch ur favourite film, with a bottle infront of u and maybe get drunk inside ur house, but this is temporary, becasue it is actually a psychological problem.
Hook on to a power greater than you. The heart of man is made for God and it will never find rest until it rests in God. Marriage cannot take away loneliness. Staying in a crowd will not. Having bagfulls of girlfriends will not. Please do not allow anybody to lead you into more loneliness. That is my take! God bless you.
When trying to assess the cause, or causes, of loneliness current trends focus on the absence of loved one's, success and friendship. Although there is no doubt that absence of such things creates loneliness in one's life. A quick review of some of the current terms, given to contemporary loneliness, reveals that something greater than the material is the root cause of it
Note! These are not oxymorons, but they are clear proof that there is more to loneliness than the absence of the material.
the remedy is up to you, depends on what things are of interest to you, personally i enjoy playing chess online when am feeling lonely, there are a lot of games you can get involved in, you could read books, the bible, visit friends, take up a casual job for the fun of it and not necessarily the pay, it should be something you love to do, watch CNN or SKYNEWS to get the latest on world reports and events,keep yourself busy by initiating what you have learnt that day as discussion points with people you meet, depending on their area of interest though.
you could also just think of any topic and look up on google what details there are, so many things to keep you busy, but i will advise you keep yourself busy with something that will bring you financial gains, you will never be lonely because am sure you wont get tired of seeing your bank account grow.
all the best.
If you really believe getting a babe will cure your loneliness,then it goes to show how you view life.
You can still be lonely with a bevy of girls around you, it all depends on what you want to make out of yourself.
You can also be alone without being lonely, discover yourself and make good use of your time.
Loneliness is not an abnormal humanistic construct. It is not necessarily a condition devoid of "direction" or "love" as a person can possess a loving persona and yet be lonely. Case in point - long distance interpersonal relationships or relationships where the subjects are incompatible. Need i also say that the view that to be alone is to be without direction is highly flawed.
@Oscawilde – Since your quest is for a “babe” who would hopefully relieve you off your lonesome. Pali, I would suggest you shine your eyes well well as you mingle more . ------make woman no take your eye see pepper------
A very cogent point is made by olanajim. Indeed, there is something to be said for being alone. Solitude is, truly, of great significance. And, remember, being alone does not mean being lonely. It has been said (with great truth) that one can be lonely in a great crowd of people.
Time alone allows one to better determine one's self. Doing so allows a person to better assess what s/he has to bring to any given relationship, whether a casual friendship, a professional acquaintanceship or a romantic relationship. Too many times, people go from being somebody's child directly to being somebody's spouse and immediately to being somebody's parent, when they have not determined who they, themselves, are. Ideally, one should be definable in terms of being an individual entity, not in terms of how one is connected to somebody else.
If you are a career person , look out for professional exam in your discipline and write the exam , it will take you minimum of two months for the preparation, on the process u will go for some training, you will meet some people in the study class, make them your friendas and reading partner, i assure you after the exam , you will have a long list of friends to talk to and guess what, they will be people of the same class, reasoning like you. it helped me