This is a summary of my last relationship. please read it carefully. ur comments will be appreciated.
I started dating her at a time when she broke up with her boy friend. The reason 4 heir break up was infidelity on the part of the guy.As far as I was concerned, the guy was out and out of her life for good. Please dnt get me wrong, I never tried to blackmail him, I just tried to make her have a conviction that the guy was no longer part of her. Initially I believed she didn’t need this guy bt as time elapsed I gat to realize she acted otherwise. The guy has always been persistent about her so he tried to see her but I expected her to not put up with it. At an instance I got to know she had to sleep in the guy’s house overnight! I couldn’t believe it. How could she have put herself in such a compromising mode? both to herself and our relationship? I asked if anything happened bt she told me nothing did. Not even a touch from him. I find that hard 2 believe. Do u think so?
She later tld me the reason she had to go 2 his house was that “there was fire on the mountain”. She said the guy told her she has a message from a ‘prophet’. The prophet said he shld tell the girl she was part of his life and nothing can change that- not even a quarrel. So they had to go and see the ‘prophet’ that evening.why not during the day? I never believed this. he even went further telling her an event which happened some time when they were together. The girl wrote on his bible then ‘I will never break ur hrt’ after a quarrel. The ‘prophet’ said she had to fulfill that. She said she was afraid of what he was saying so she had 2 consider him thereby leaving me.
Why should girls be so fickle minded?- so unstable in their reasoning. One time they kiss u and say ‘ I love you’ while you really mean saying the same thing to them; another time its history for just flimsy excuses.
Why should she be dating a guy out of fear 4 what the ‘prophet’ said?
It means for her whole life she is bound to this guy even if he cheats on her again!
I am single now and I know am not daunted by this experience. My true love is out there who will love me the way I am. I believe she is not the one 4 me bt the circumstances of the break up was full of flaws.
Why is it that MOST girls are like this?