My boyfriend and I decided to go on a date. He pick me up and we drove to the cinema. Just when I was about to buy the movie ticket and telling him to go buy the popcorn, he pulled out 2 tickets from his wallet (it shows that he has already bought it in advance) and so I told him I would then go buy the popcorn and he said he has already paid for it just have to collect it. So I told him that I needed to go to the toilet and I went while he waited for me outside. I went in and called the restaurant to book for a table for two and told them that if my boyfriend is paying, tell them that it has already been settled. I gave my credit card number and the 3 digits to secure the payment.
After the movie, he told me that we are going to have dinner at Mc D and I told him that I would prefer to go to the Victoria's (the restuarant which I have made reservation with) - Anyways, he loves dining there and so we went. When payment time, he was going to pay but the waiter told him that it has already been paid for and so he look at me with that smile and he said, Ok, we're even today but I'll win tomorrow!
Mind you, this was our very first date. He never did win after that date as I have my ways all the time. We're usually even.
So Poster, your topic aint that real to some couples.
ok, @Topic -- I do NOT expect a guy to spend on me before I say yes.
Besides, I don't understand all this money spending issue sef, I mean . . . wht do u guys mean by "spending"??
what does the guy want to buy me that I don't already have?? -- It's not like he is going to buy me a car or a house or anything like that! soo apart 4rom such two I don't see anything else that is worth all the bragging
Money hardly plays any part in my relationships -- besides I hate a guy who will try to show me that he got this and that, they are always full of themselves. To hell with your money jor.
Maybe i misunderstood what the poster was talking about. I thought he ment spending money in the since of taking a woman out and showing her a good time.
Why would a woman just agree to be in a r/s with a guy based off of no information. How am i going to get to know u unless we go out. True there are free things we can do together, like the park, musuems, outside concerts, free movies in the park etc. But a guy has to be creative to think of plan and put together these moments.
I am certainly not going to be sitting in some guys house that i dont know and i am deff. not going to have him at my house w/o having dated him for a while.
So no you really dont have to spend any money to take me out to dinner or a movie but you will need to spend time which to some is the same as money.
You use money as bait to hook a girl and then complain that all she wants is money? LMAO. . . That's like spraying yourself with shalanga water and then complain about flies following you.
Guys have a lot to learn. . . a whole lot. You don't have confidence in yourself, you think all you have to offer a girl is money and materials things, it's only natural you'll attract girls who base their love on those things. Instead of lamenting, I say take a few self esteem classes and start believing in yourself. . . . mmmkay. Good.
if you mean "spending" as in taking me shopping and buying whatever i want, then no. I dont expect a guy to buy me anything before we are truly in a relationship. it would be nice if he did but it wouldn't be expected of him. but once we enter the relationship, well that is a whole different topic.
Growing up my dad took me on dates and opened the door for me. he would buy me flowers when he brought for my mom. He always treated me like his princess. I am sorry but if a dude cant deliver like my dad then he is not worthy of my time.
My dad is the only picture i have of a MAN and if you dont hold up aganist him then you fall short.
So if spending money, time and effort on me is too much then you are not the dude for me. I give as good as I get but will dismiss you in quick min if you fall short.