It is very wide question to get the concrete answer. Many peole just waist their whole lifes on things they do not even want to or like. It is too bad and i feel very sorry for us. I think that i am also loosing something important in my life by doing things which i tottally dont like to do. I think in such way - by getting the job, that we dont like, by marrige with person that we ought to, but have no love, - we just wasting both the most presious things of our life - and time and ourselves. This is the saddest thing, because we ruin all our life by doing things that we dont even want to.